Ok - hopefully I have found a solution for this.  Anyway its working for me.  QuickBooks is correct that this is a browser setting, HOWEVER, what I found is that QuickBooks is enabling this each time with a cookie they send when you connect.  In Chrome (mostly what I use for QuickBooks), go into your chrome settings and search for cookies - disable accepting all cookies from intuit.   

I closed my browser and rebooted just to be safe and now I am no longer questioned as to being a robot.  I have logged in and out of QuickBooks several times to test my theory and voila, I am robot and send a text each time free.  

QuickBooks - check your cookies.....  

I imagine for Firefox (my backup when QuickBooks doesn't play nice on Chrome) - the fix is similar, but I didn't track down the cookie setting there yet.  

I hope this helps everyone else.  I will try to do some screen shots for those not so technical and post later.  Now I must use my gained time for work.