We are having this same issue.  My client is using QBDT Pro 2019.  I found her exactly the report she was looking for in Report Center/Vendors and Payables called "unpaid bills by Customer Job".  If we run the report and make our date changes and a filter change, we cannot memorize it.  QB freezes and we have to use Task Manager to kill it.  We also have run all the utilities, verifies, and rebuilds.  Even saved to a QBM and restored that.  Same problem.

Quickbooks Support is VERY slow to correct problems.  Also, unfortunately, it take FOREVER to get someone on the phone who can actually help and we spend hours on the phone only to have wasted all that time investment.

So, Quickbooks, when will you get your act together and fix this bug?