Hello, user32906. I appreciate for providing further details of your concern.

I can see how relevant for you and your business to get the same date as your invoice date when utilizing the Recurring transactions feature. The send date will not have the same date as the invoice date. It's because QuickBooks automatically generates the date as the invoice date depending on the number of days you've set up. 
 

For now, you may want to visit our blog site so you'll be able to get the latest news about QuickBooks and what our Product Care Team is working on.

Also, I've got an article you can use for additional information about creating templates for recurring transactions: Recurring transactions in QuickBooks Online. 

Let me know if you have other questions. The Community is always around to help in any way that we can. Stay safe and take.