Hello there, @Janfromearth1.

Are you trying to change the status of the reconciled transaction? You can actually edit your QuickBooks Online transaction status manually.

Here's how:

1. Go to Accounting, then select Chart of Accounts.
2. Look for the account and select View register. 
3. Select the transaction you want to unreconciled.
4. Review the check column. If the transaction is reconciled, you’ll see an “R.”
5. Select the box and keep clicking it until the box is blank. This removes the transaction from the reconciliation.
6. Once done click Save.

Here's a step-by-step guide in reconciling your account in QuickBooks Online: Reconcile an account in QuickBooks Online.

Also, learn what to do if your account in QuickBooks Online doesn't match your bank statement at the end of reconciliation: Fix issues when you're reconciling accounts in QuickBooks Online.

Feel free to ask questions if you need clarification. I'll be happy to assist you further. have a great day!