Well, went thru all the different instructions and it worked for 2 whole days.  Tried to do it again and that didin't help.  The owner has gotten irratated that I've spent this much time with it.  Asked I if could live with it as is, and I pretty much can knowing that it could at any time freeze in the middle of what I'm doing and then have the box letting me know that Quickbooks has encountered an error and must close.  Easier to let it crash, and restart it and continue working rather than deal with someone popping into the office wanting to know why I'm still trying to fix it.

There's no shutting down normally either, same old thing - encountering and error and must close.

I'm forced to give up by the owner.  Thank you for all of the info to try to help me out.  I truly apprecitate being able to get help.  When 2020 comes out, I'll try the instructions again before I install the new version and hopes that solves the problem.