I'm trying to help you. Try this:

To get the app to launch without opening any company file hold down the option key while launching the app. This prevents QuickBooks form opening your previously used company file.

Then select your company file from the "No Company Open" Window.  Hold down the command key while opening the file. This prevents the last used windows from opening.

Then go into QuickBooks->Preferences and turn off window tabbing.  Avoid opening the home page.

My hope is that will work around for the known Sonoma crashes.