Hi, @406Dan.

I see that this hasn't been easy on your part that you contacted support and weren't able to fix this. Let me be your best help.

Let's try logging in using your Intuit account outside QuickBooks. After that, run updates to your QuickBooks Desktop to the latest release.

If the reminder "Have not logged in for 89 days", I recommend contacting QuickBooks Desktop support again to acquire updates on what to perform to remove this. Moreover, you can ask questions about why it always shows up.

To learn what’s new and improved in the latest updates to QuickBooks Desktop 2023, you can read this article: Release notes for QuickBooks Desktop 2023.

Never hesitate to come back here if you have additional questions about managing your QBDT account. We'll be willing to help. Take care always.