Yep - the tab thing is a bug on Ventura (whether it is Apple's or Intuit's is a matter of conjecture).  The good news is we have fixed it and have already released the update for QB Mac 2023 yesterday that fixes all the known Ventura issues.  We'll be releasing updates to older supported versions of QB Mac as soon as possible. Until then you should wait to update to Ventura.  The known issues are mostly UI related but annoying to work with.

When you see an update is available in QuickBooks you'll know that version has been upgraded. The update check is only done at launch so Quit and Relaunch QB every day or so  to check.