Today I have consistency.

Started up QB on the Computer that hosts the database.  No problem.  Launched a workstation and the software loaded to the normal screen and then shut down.  I closed QB on the Server/Data hosting computer and launched the "Database Service Manager" in the Quickbooks Program File from the Start Menu.  After scanning, it did find a network issue and was able to resolve.  After run, I started up QB on the main computer and 2 other workstations with no other issues.  Going to run the Database Service Manager at startup before I launch QB from now on as part of the startup process.  I do remote access but hopefully won't be an issue, will find out in a few days.