@Teri, I'm not really advocating a "My Way". I'm in the same boat as you.  I prefer to be on my own and coach business owners; instead of become one.  Almost all of my clients have to shift their Mindset from DOER to LEADER.     If you are coaching other business owners who are trying to grow and empower others in their organization; it takes a mindset shift.  Otherwise, you become an ineffective leader. That was the primary purpose of my question.